Am I listening?
Rebecca R. Pauly
I hear you say
My plate is full
I am having trouble sleeping
I am more tearful these past six months
My energy is low
I find it hard to engage
But, do I listen to know
Your mother’s health is declining
She will likely move in with you and your family
At night your mind races
You have been through changes
Too numerous to count
You are now an empty nester
And how you long for the noisy chatter of teenagers
You no longer attend exercise classes
You just don’t have the time
You seem to be pulling back
From activities that gave you joy
I should listen to understand
You feel burned out
You hope wellness can be restored
You know your current state is not sustainable
You are open to discussing your stressors
You believe joy is just below the surface
Needing dedicated nurturing
What I hear and how I can listen
Words communicate
Feelings held tightly to the chest
I will listen to the words and beyond
For values, vision, content, and context
To respond to the human cry of emotions
When I have truly listened
I witness your opening up
I catch a glimpse into your soul
As if a bud is expanding to reveal
A vivid sun-soaked yellow blossom
Creating a collaborative
Awareness for healing